Managing Life as a Work-at-Home Mom: How to Juggle It All, Part 3

Managing Life as a Work-at-Home Mom: How to Juggle It All, Part 3

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Did you miss the first two posts in this series? Find them here and here

Let’s continue on with the practical, shall we?

Making Work More Productive

Part of the balancing act is learning to work smarter, not harder. This includes developing the ability to see what doesn’t need to be done, and not just learning to do too many things more efficiently. Doing unnecessary work “efficiently” is still a waste of time!

Here are some productivity tips that work for me:

  • Batching. Rather than processing emails as they come in, on your iPhone or by checking your email frequently as you work, set aside particular chunks of time where you deal with it all at once. You’ll be far less distracted and get through it faster. The rest of the time? Just close your email. The world will go on. (And you can apply this to many areas- do all of your weekly writing in one time slot, process orders all at once, etc.)
  • Set timers for work. I love using The Tiny Timer while I’m writing or completing tasks. It helps me to work faster, stay more focused, and be better at stopping when I need to.
  • Plan what you need to do before you begin. If I sit down with the computer without a prioritized to-do list, my time use is poor, to say the least. By taking 5 minutes to brainstorm what needs to be done and put it in a priority sequence (most important tasks first), I actually accomplish what is truly important, instead of just what comes easily.
  • Use Google mail and learn to manage your email well.
  • Use Google calendars or iCalendar. I use reminders for everything from my blogging post schedule to submitting my food co-op orders to date night with my husband to following up with an advertiser. I have the reminders sent to my email. Some people like the pop-up reminders. Use what works for you.
  • Avoid email and social media while doing important tasks. This is more particular to having a web-based business like I do, but for anyone that works from home, it’s a matter of figuring out what are the distractions that keep you from completing important tasks quickly and effectively, and shutting them off.
  • Eat a frogDo your crucial tasks first.

Automate, eliminate, delegate. The process goes like this… take the things that you are currently doing or feel need to be done. Then ask yourself, 1) Can this task be automated in some way? (Computer program, reminders, auto-responders, etc.) 2) Can this task be eliminated? (Is it truly valuable, does it contribute to income-production, is it unnecessary busy work?) and 3) Can this task be delegated? (Again, back to hiring things out. Can someone else do this better/faster/cheaper? Do I really need to be the one to do this?). Just a few examples:

  • Auto-feeds for social media (I do this for Twitter, but not for Facebook)
  • Setting up detailed FAQ pages to refer people to
  • Use email filters to avoid seeing things you don’t really need to see, or to automatically forward emails to people who need to deal with them (when it’s not you)
  • Staying current in your field. How many blogs, magazines, articles do you need to read? Is reading them daily or even weekly necessary? How many conferences are worthwhile to attend? Which trade shows are actually worth going to? Be brutal and eliminate everything but the best.
  • Make a list of all tasks that you do and assess all of the ones that someone else could do, and if you can, seek to delegate or hire them out. Focus only on what you do best and what tasks absolutely require you and you alone.

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Creative Scheduling

Part of being able to keep my family a priority and balance my work time with my husband’s is that we try to arrange our schedules creatively. Who says you need to work within regular work hours?

  • Think outside the box. I use a combination of different times of day, lengths of time, and locations. When you look at your schedule, don’t toss out any ideas without considering them. In some seasons, I have gotten up super early one morning a week, or let the children have a movie one afternoon a week. Take advantage of a night that your husband works late. There are so many possibilities.
  • When do you work best- mornings, afternoons, evenings? Choosing to work during your ideal times helps a lot with productivity. I write and work well in the mornings and early afternoons, but in the evenings my brain starts to shut off. I work one evening each week because it just happened to work that way, but it isn’t intensive writing work. I also won’t wake up super early to work anymore, because I personally prefer to keep that time for exercise and devotions, and I am a basket-case when I attempt to do mornings at 4 or 5am. For others, they thrive in the early mornings and so that might be their best time!
  • Before you put together your work schedule, carve out the times that are essential for your family’s rhythms and routines. I slot in essentials like meals, homeschool, church caregroup and the like before planning the rest of my schedule.

Letting Go of Things That Aren’t Necessary

Some things I’ve found it’s good to let go of:

  • Social media. I keep it bare bones.
  • Checking email (or anything else) constantly. Not everything is urgent, so why treat it as such? Just because technology has made us available to the rest of the world every second of the day doesn’t mean that we need to go along with it. Turn things OFF.
  • Making fancy meals. I realized that my family was just as happy with simple meals, so I toned down the need to make more elaborate things with multiple courses or dishes. Soup with bread, pasta with a meat-and-veggie sauce, a hearty casserole with some raw veggies. Why does it need to be more complicated?
  • Some household tasks. Do the floors really need to be cleaned on a particular schedule if they still look good from the last time you did them? Does anyone look inside your pajama or underwear drawers? I don’t fold pajamas or kids pants, and store all my kids underwear and cloth diapers unfolded in baskets. When you’re pressed for time with cleaning, do the doorknobs and baseboards and little crevices make a big difference? Focus on the basics- decluttered and wiped surfaces, floors, bathroom basics, and a tidy entryway.
  • Every opportunity. You can’t say yes to everything. I’ve turned down things that I really wanted to do, but knew would be too much for me and my family.
  • Perfectionism. I aim for a high quality of standard in the work that I do, especially in my writing. I edit every post as carefully as possible but eventually, I have to press Publish. If I make a mistake, then I make one. Sometimes we just have to do our best, and be content with letting our best be good enough.
  • Being superwoman. You really can’t be. And that’s OK.

Source: via Kelly on Pinterest

Resources to Recommend

Here are some highly recommend resources that have both challenged and encouraged me in my own journey as a blogger and work-at-home mom:

For bloggers in particular:

How to correctly start a blog (from scratch)
How to Make Money Blogging series @ Money Saving Mom
My Top 11 Blogging Tips @ Simple Mom
Blogging With Amy (a blog about blogging for profit, in easy-to-understand language)

Simple Blogging eBook by Rachel Meeks of Small Notebook (this eBook really challenged all the things I thought I “had” to do as a blogger and helped me to scale back and focus on the essentials)

For work-from-home moms in general:
Working from Home @ Simple Mom (this link is to the entire category, because it’s full of useful posts, too many to link individually)
Becoming a Work at Home Mom @ Money Saving Mom
How to Have Your Cake and Eat It, Too by Mandi Ehman of Life…Your Way.
The 4 Hour Work Week by Tim Ferriss- This is where I got the concept of automation, elimination and delegation. The book is very counter-cultural (and he is not coming from a Christian perspective at all so keep that in mind), but in my opinion, there are some brilliant ideas as far as managing work load, and it’s at least worth taking out of the library.
168 Hours: You Have More Time Than You Think by Laura Vanderkam- I’m reading through this right now and finding that it is really challenging the way that I think about how I use my time. It’s from the perspective of a work-at-home-mom, although it is written for a broader audience.

What are your productivity tips? What things do you let go of and what helps you juggle it all?

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  1. These are such great suggestions! I’m definitely going to be using the Tiny Timer beginning today. Just what I needed!

  2. Thanks so much for this series! I am currently transitioning from working out side the home to being a work at home mom. I couldn’t agree more with making family time first. My husband and I sat down and discussed what my work schedule will be at home to ensure that we don’t lose that. These tips will definately help as I get my products up and going.

  3. Glad I’m finally getting to read this! :o) Thanks for the tips…I definitely am at the point where I need to learn how to let some things go, so other areas can grow. The tip about scheduling time to answer e-mails is what I really needed to hear. I get behind so easily in this area. But I’m also really bad about checking all through the day on my phone. I have even thought about asking my hubby to trade phones w/ me (b/c he doesn’t have a Smart phone). Sometimes it would be nice to not be quite *so* connected.

    What do you use for your Twitter feed? I am so bad at Twitter. I update maybe once/week, and I have no idea how to use hashtags, etc. And to be honest–i don’t know if I really care. It’s just one.more.thing. I like your blogging philosophy!

    Thanks again!

    1. For my Twitter feed, I use It’s not fancy, but it auto-tweets my posts. I don’t get to add in hashtags or anything. I’m awful at Twitter, too, so at least I know that each of my posts are getting out there once, and then I occasionally get on Twitter to do other things, but it’s rare.

      And I have a smart phone (iPhone) but I don’t have a data plan, just a basic phone plan, so I can’t really use it for anything beyond the phone, music and for basic apps. It’s fantastic. I LOVE not being connected all day long. 🙂

  4. I’ve mentioned it already but I really like this series Stephanie. Yours is still on my blogs I read list, having done already what you recommend and cut back on my RSS.

  5. Great series. I am in the process of reworking my weekly schedule and appreciate the opportunity to glean from your experience.

  6. I turn off the noise alerts on my phone for email, text message, etc. I find this helps because if I leave the noise alerts on then I get distracted each time I hear that alert wondering “who just texted,” or “who sent that email?” Just an easy as pie trick that saves tons of time during the day when I need to be productive.

    I also agree with working during your best hours. I am a morning person, up at 5am usually. I cannot keep my eyes open past 9pm so I don’t save any important tasks for after dinner. I get it all done early in the day and save the “no brainers” for evening.

  7. I just discovered your wonderful blog!

    This series especially is a help to me right now. My husband started a home business two years ago, and as it grows, the internet related work is falling to me.

    This series contains some wonderful tips and insights. Thank you for the series!

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