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Forget About Giving Toys … Choose Experience Gifts

Dec 8, 2014     Keeper of the Home    5 Comments

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Give your kids gifts that make memories that last a lifetime – experience gifts! They don't take up more room in the house and create clutter. They create anticipating and can be savored – longer than most physical gifts!

By Hilary Bernstein, Contributing Writer

Toys lay scattered across the floors of my children’s bedrooms. Despite my daily reminders to pick up, chore chart attempts and a rotating toy system that did – for a time – work wonders, my children have no desire to routinely clean their rooms.

I can’t say that I blame them. I didn’t want to when I was 4 or 6, either.

As much as I think I’d like to help the process along by getting rid of most of their toysForget About Giving Toys … Choose Experience Gifts, I just can’t. They do love to play with the toys they have. And I love hearing them play quietly in their own rooms, filled with imaginative play conversations. These are the sounds I always imagined my house would be filled with when I dreamed of becoming a mom. I just didn’t imagine the messy rooms that also would be part of it.

I’m learning to accept the messy rooms and remind myself that someday I’ll miss seeing toys everywhere. Yet I’m also fully aware – and mentally preparing myself – for the onslaught of Christmas toys.

Forget About Giving Toys … Choose Experience Gifts {KeeperOfTheHome.org}

What’s a minimalistic parent to do?

Even though my children never ask for many toys, our generous family members and friends shower my son and daughter each December. The generosity is kind. And it’s appreciated. But it’s difficult to make any strides in minimalism when our kids’ rooms are overflowing with stuff.

Since my children truly don’t need anything, I’m not shy in telling grandparents about the gift conundrum. They know our children – and they know how much stuff they have. I also share how it’s tricky for my husband and I to decide what to buy for our own children. We want to give good gifts that will be enjoyed. [Tweet “We don’t want to give just for the sake of giving.”]

We do share a few gift ideas of toys our children have been talking about. But I’ve noticed that the kind of gift my children really love is an experience gift. (I happen to love them, too!)

I love that experience gifts create memories. I love that they don’t take up room in my house. I love that they can be anticipated and savored.

Some of my family’s favorite experience gifts have been:

  • Memberships to museums and zoos,
  • Vacations,
  • Day trips,
  • Performances,
  • Movies, and
  • Meals out.

Give your kids gifts that make memories that last a lifetime – experience gifts! They don't take up more room in the house and create clutter. They create anticipating and can be savored – longer than most physical gifts!

The packaging or presentation doesn’t have to be fancy – the gift is all about doing something. Sometimes the gift giver is part of the experience, which is great. Other times, it’s just a gift for our family of four. Either way, experience gifts are the ones I hope to receive – and the ones I’m most excited about.

How do you fight the battle with stuff in your own home? What kind of gift ideas do you have for a family that doesn’t need more stuff? What are your favorite kind of experience gifts?

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  1. raisingcropsandbabies says

    December 8, 2014 at 3:54 AM

    We did an experience gift this year and that will be our theme for our 4 kids from now on. Between grandparents and aunts and uncles they get enough stuff! Plus, as 3 of them are boys, they break everything! haha.

    This year we got them a new rail sled (which should last a lifetime guaranteed) and a night at Great Wolfe Lodge! I’m super excited for them and they will love it!

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    • Hilary Kimes Bernstein says

      December 9, 2014 at 10:45 AM

      What a GREAT experience gift idea! I’m sure you’ll all love it!

      Reply
  2. sarah says

    December 8, 2014 at 1:28 PM

    This is our first year to deal with this since our first baby is almost a year old. One of the grandmas has already provided an overabundance of toys throughout the year and plans to buy a ton more for Christmas. We’ve talked to her about it, but not sure we got through. 🙂 She did mention that she might start a savings account for him as part of his Christmas gift. I thought that was a great idea.

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    • Hilary Kimes Bernstein says

      December 9, 2014 at 10:45 AM

      I love the idea of a savings account!

      Reply
  3. Lanna says

    December 12, 2014 at 1:24 PM

    I love this! I wish everybody thought like that! <3

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