Our awesome trick for taking away Halloween candy (without a fight)
There are a lot of differing views on how Halloween should or shouldn’t be celebrated, but I think as moms who work hard to prioritize our family’s health, avoiding a bagful of tooth-rotting, immune-system crushing candy is pretty high on the list.
But whether you allow your kids to trick-or-treat, or attend a local fall or harvest carnival, chances are there will be candy. And gobs of it.
After years of not celebrating the day at all, our family opted last year to let our kids dress up and go trick-or-treating as a special family event with their grandparents and cousins.
It was a riot going through our local thrift store to come up with costumes and so fun to see them out running around with Grandpa and the cousins, breathless, exhilarated and clearly having a blast.
But the candy. Oh, the candy. That was the part I was dreading.
Until my mother-in-law, Janet, came up with a stroke of brilliance.
You see, she’s a toy seller on Amazon and our kids happen to think that her garage/stock room is the coolest place on earth (well, maybe second to where we went on our Kenyan safari… but it’s a close second in their eyes).
How we kept the candy from our kids (and all walked away happy)
Here’s how she did it:
1. She found a selection of toys, from cheap up to slightly more expensive.
It included things like small cars, figurines, small lego kits, playdoh, etc. It’s great if there are things that your kids are especially fond of that they can earn one at a time, like pieces that go with a set they’re collecting. You want a range of prize sizes and values, so they have a choice to get a bunch of things or save up for a bigger item.
2. Next, she gave each one a value that corresponded to an amount of candy.
Because she has a good scale that she uses for weighing packages, that’s what we used. Other options would be a kitchen or bathroom scale, using a bowl on top to hold the candy (and taking the weight of the bowl into account).
We measured the candy in grams, and each toy was weighed as well. The weight of the toy was generally the price it cost in candy weight (we made exceptions for a few things, but this was the general rule).
You could also do it more simply without a scale, by making items worth a certain number of pieces of candy. Maybe some that are worth 5 each, others worth 10, and maybe some really awesome prizes worth 20 pieces each.
3. Then it was time for the trade.
When our kids burst through the screen door with buckets and pillowcases weighted down with their loot, they went over to the candy station to weigh it. Once they knew how many grams of candy they had, the could choose how to use it based on the price of the prizes.
A few enterprising kids even went back out for another quick round of knocking on doors to earn more for the prizes they wanted most when they realized they fell a little short.
I asked my three big kids their impressions of last year and this is what they said:
Abbie, age 10 ~ “It was good, sort of, because you wouldn’t have let us eat all that candy anyways. So we got something good out of it anyways.”
Caden, age 8 ~ “I thought it was nice, but I didn’t want to trade all my candy. I want to eat some candy. But I love the idea. I like toys, so I liked the deals, and Grandma has really good toys.”
Johanna, age 6 ~ “It was really fun. Trading your candy is better than eating your candy, because sometimes you can get cavities. So that’s why I trade. And because toys are fun. And still getting to eat a little bit of my candy because you let me.”
What the adults thought:
It was genius. She scored huge amounts of mother-in-law points.
Our kids still ate a few pieces of candy each. We didn’t force them to trade everything, but left it up to them. Since they wanted to have as much candy weight to redeem as possible, they chose their candy for eating very carefully and only kept their favorites.
I think letting them choose a few keepers to eat helped them feel like they weren’t being deprived, and yet as my daughter Abbie said above, I would never have let them eat all of that candy, so they really ended up with the best of both worlds.
This year I think we might be slightly more intentional about coming up with toys that really suit each child/age/gender in particular. Last year was more of a last-minute idea, so Grandma picked out of what she had on hand to make it work (and it was still a definite hit). If we had a few items that we knew our kids particularly loved, it would be a total no-brainer for them.
Mommy and Daddy may also have dipped into the trade-ins once or twice. I’m just saying. (But actually, most of it we turned around and put into the candy bowl at the front door for the other neighborhood kids that were coming by. Let’s call it recycling. 🙂
How do you cut down on the candy your kids eat, while still allowing them to be part of the festivities?
The short answer is, we don’t 🙂 The long answer is, we treat Halloween candy like any other treat or dessert that we have lying around the house. We specify a time for them to have it: dessert after dinner. That way, dessert does not become a forbidden fruit. They get to try different types of things, since it’s a miniscule amount. And they do not ask for it all day because they know when they’ll get it. For Halloween candy in particular, I might make it one Hershey’s kiss or 5 (or whatever number corresponds to their age) Smarties or something. And I find that if we keep this up long enough, Hallloween candy eventually starts to lose its appeal next to the Thanksgiving and Christmas treats, and they forget it every existed.
I purchase Halloween candy from The Natural Candy Store online. When my boys (ages 4 and 7) get back from trick or treating they pick 5 things to eat from their bags. Then they trade the rest to me in exchange for the “good candy”. However, they only get 1 piece of the “good candy” per day after Halloween.
Perhaps it wasn’t the best idea, but years ago I began purchasing Yummy Earth lollipops as a treat for them after they took their Cod Liver Oil. So, they’re used to getting a lollipop every morning after breakfast when they take their CLO anyway. I just substitute the “good candy” from Halloween in place of the lollipop until it’s gone. The candy lasts a long time, and they aren’t overloaded by the nasty stuff.
I think this is a great idea! I love the way it is teaching them the basics of how the economy works, and how to spend their *money* wisely. Of course, a good game of blackjack could work as well (I kid, kind of) ^_^ . We’re just mean and take it away.
Now that I’ve read so much about the whole child slavery thing when it comes to conventional chocolate, I really don’t know what to do. Participating at all seems wrong, but we probably will anyway.
Back when I lived in the city, I gave out non-food treats. The year of the Tylenol scare was also the year that PacMan was the biggest thing going, so I gave out tokens to the local arcade. I’ve also given out stickers, Halloween themed pencils, small toys, coins, etc. It’s not the same as when I was a kid, when the best treat was Mrs. Woods’ popcorn balls. Now I live so far out in the boonies that no kids show up at all.
I don’t really buy candy for our home – with the exception of the occasional bag of Twizzlers – so my daughter only gets “treats” from what she collects on Halloween and other holidays. She gets one piece per day after dinner, assuming she drinks her milk and eats all of her veggies. But I LOVE this idea!!